Separation is one of the most challenging transitions anyone can face. It’s more than paperwork — it’s an emotional journey filled with questions, grief and sometimes conflict. After working with hundreds of clients and reflecting on our own experiences, we realised there was no single resource that combined the legal stuff with practical support. That’s why we created the Clean Break Roadmap.
What’s inside:
1. A proven process for property division. Our B.R.E.A.K.S framework guides you from the initial consult through gathering records, evaluating assets, reaching agreement, drafting the contract and final settlement. Understanding each step reduces anxiety and keeps everyone working with the same information.
2. Managing emotions and conflict. The booklet includes a “grief mountain” explaining the seven stages of grief, a discussion of how stress affects your brain during separation and a conflict‑style quiz to help you negotiate effectively. We offer practical tips for sharing the news of your separation and setting boundaries.
3. Tools for parenting arrangements. We explain what parenting agreements cover (living arrangements, time with each parent, decisions about school and health) and point you to Ministry of Justice resources, mediation and options. We also clarify how child support works and why it helps create stability for your children.
4. Personal reflections and values. Sarah shares her own family story and why she founded Clean Break, reminding readers that life after separation can be hopeful and empowered.
Why we’re offering it for free:
At Clean Break, our mission is to create a bridge to what’s next and help you feel more in control. We believe that informed clients make better decisions and that compassionate guidance shouldn’t be a luxury. This resource is the first of its kind produced by a NZ law firm and we’re proud to make it available at no cost.
Download and share:
If you or someone you know is going through a separation, we invite you to download the Clean Break Roadmap and share it widely.
We hope it provides clarity, comfort and a plan for moving forward.
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